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Blog 1 - Melbourne EFT

Sons & Lovers: Same-gender attracted men, their fathers and intimate partner relationships

On 18 September 2024 Kieran O’Loughlin gave an online presentation at the EFT Global LGBTQ+ Network meeting, exploring the impact of negative paternal experiences on the intimate relationships of same-gender attracted men. It featured the case study of a monogamous intimate partner relationship between two men, focusing particularly on the the impact of their respective […]

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Blog 2 - Melbourne EFT

Relationship Dynamics & Attachment Styles

Our recent EFT-based one-day workshop was an empowering and immersive experience that integrated frameworks from attachment theory, relationship dynamics and neuroscience. Our focus was on experiential learning, grounded in the principle that while the mind can comprehend concepts, the body must engage with them to transform knowledge into wisdom. Participants engaged with their relationship histories […]

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Don't feel like having sex

Don’t feel like having sex?

Don’t feel like having sex? When you don’t feel like having sex it can be helpful to give yourself a break and remember there’s no normal frequency or way of having sex. However if sex has stopped or is less than 10 times per year (approx.) and if it’s a problem for one of you, […]

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Powerful Couples Counselling

Powerful Couples Counselling

Powerful Couples Counselling When you’re looking for couples counselling that works, Emotionally Focused Couple Therapy (EFT) is what we recommend.  We’ve both explored many other models of couples counselling and we decided to study EFT because of what it offers you (and us!) in support and healing for intimate relationships. It’s what we would turn […]

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More sex less conflict

How to Have Less Conflict and More Sex

Finding yourselves in a place of wanting less conflict and more sex is not uncommon. Yet there’s a purpose behind the conflict. It’s not aimless and something you do for fun, is it?! Nor is it because one of you is bad, wrong, or annoying. It happens for a reason. Because human relationships are crucial […]

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